Monday 14 May 2012

BROKEN CRAYONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Darkness. Everywhere darkness. Except for the flashes from the big screen.  White, red, blue lights, changed its colours on the screen. Different colours, different moods reflected on the faces of the audience. Thud! Bang! Melodies! Different music.

Everyone sinked into the commotion as the movie caught the eyes and interest of everyone.
Except for two people.


Earlier that day, she wore her brand new jacket, tucked her fingers into the long sleeves, made her body brave enough to face the shivers of winter. On her way to the movie hall, she smiled and giggled with her cousins out of joy.
It was a movie for people of her age. How could she miss it? She sat on the seats, like she is preparing herself for a joy ride. So much was the excitement that evolved within her.
Advertisements. No smoking. Trailers. Movie starts. Lights off. Noise from the audience comes to an end. Characters introduced. Comedy-she laughed. Teenage moments- she giggled.
But there was one thing , she never expected, she never knew how and when a new mystery crept into her own life as a different mystery played its role in the movie. Whether this was a dark mystery or a happy mystery was indeed a big mystery. As she felt like a stranger to the movie, she was also treated like a stranger by her Known-stranger , sitting next to her.
The air conditioner blew cold air into her face, goose bumps bumped themselves up, shouting to her that it is very cold. She took the message and covered her cold fingers with her long sleeves again.
But again, the goose bumps did not bid good-bye but bumped themselves even more. But this time, it was not cause of the cold air, but cause of something different, something alien to her body.
She felt a different heat, as the head of the Known- stranger fell on her shoulders, resting with a yawn. She kept quiet and smiled in confusion, as it was the Known-stranger. Laughed in between as the comedy played its role in the movie,

But suddenly, she couldn’t concentrate; her goose bumps were bursting out of her soft skin. New tension in her body. A tension unknown to her. Again it was the Known stranger; he tucked his hands into her jacket.
Cold air and sweat, both at the same time left her in confusion, her stomach ached in tension.
The Known –stranger, did not stop, he yawned even more and placed his hands on her chest and almost compressed it, putting all his body weight on her and left her breathless, thoughtless and speechless.
She moved her eyes to her cousin, sitting next to her, but her cousin had sinked into the mystery of the movie that she could not notice the real mystery next to her.
Her hands and legs ached in suffocation. Her head wanted to burst out. Her Known- stranger was becoming heavy, dominating and different. She pushed him away, but it was of no use. She wanted to cry out of pain, but she couldn’t.

Just like the saying “ Every Night Has A Day” , the darkness came to an end, the roof threw its rays on her. The Known-stranger got up to get popcorn for her and the other KIDS. He was as fresh as a new day. The yawns had disappeared. It all felt like a dream to her.

Yes!! The Known-stranger was none other than her Own Sweet Uncle. And she was none other than A Sweet Little Child of just 12 years of age.
As the other kids laughed and giggled for the innocent jokes each other cracked, she sat idle innocently thinking of the joke that was just played on her. But this joke didn’t make her laugh. It made her cry silently, somewhere deep inside, as the pain increased both physically and mentally.
She cleverly changed her place, after the interval but now she was tired. Both physically and mentally tired. Her eyes couldn’t keep up with the movie and its mystery as her own mystery irritated her.
She did not know what to do. Yes she was away from the Known-stranger and she was away from the movie and her fellow kids. She was in a different world, so she preferred becoming blind to the joke that was played on her and she slept a tired sleep.

Marco-polo
I think we all have played this game, when we were kids. A person will be blind-folded and the kids run helter-skelter, trying to dodge him. But the rule of the game instructs the other players to shout the word "DANGER", when the blind-folded person is about to hit a wall or fall into a pit and many others dangerous things.

“Do not talk to strangers”
“ Do not take sweets from them!”
“ Do not go alone on the roads”
“Do not do this or do not do that”

Every single day,  we give our little ones, so many advises and guidelines, which is truly important. Our little ones are blindfolded with the gift of innocence from God, they judge what is wrong or right by what we tell them.
They trust us. They believe us. They love us. They love us for who we are.
How can we cheat them and their little hearts?
Isn’t it our duty to inform them, that both good guys and bad guys exist in their surroundings?
By bad guys, I am not referring to thieves, kidnappers but other such popular bad guys, who do not own a heart, even if they do, its all just a part of science.

I am referring to that heartless uncle who was more of child sexual abuser, whose heart and mind was conquered by the evil. Even a child looks like a sex object to SUCH PSYCHOS. Their thirst reaches the weak, the innocent, clearly just the kids, who do not understand or even realize what is the meaning and the impact of the word ‘sex’.
But these beautiful little ones become prey to the worlds dirtiest, heartless predators – Child Sexual Abusers.
Why don’t we warn our kids about such predators?
No one is talking about sex education.
That is a completely different subject.
Not at all relevant here.
I am just talking about giving our little ones awareness on the Danger Zones.  
Just red high lighted lines for our sweet little ones which indicates the danger zones they need to be aware of.
Watch this clip, you will know what I am talking about…..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPK7e_6-JMk&feature=related
The workshop at the end of the show, guided by a doctor, was something which is a must for every child and parent. If you have missed it, catch the episode online on the Satyamev Jayate website [http://www.satyamevjayate.in/] and, as Aamir said, try and hold this workshop with your children or even the neighbourhood kids at least once every six months. After all, just like a child must know never to accept an eatable from a stranger or never to touch an unclaimed bag (there might be a bomb in there), he or she MUST know what kind of behaviour from an adult is within limits and what is not.

Didn’t this clip, bring a smile to your face, if not in the end but at least in the beginning? Yes! Kids bring a smile to our faces.
That’s the magic of kids. Their innocence spreads very quickly into the hearts of every person present around them.
When such little ones are hurt, isn’t it our duty to protect them?
Our Indian law does not have any law for child sexual abuse; a bill is still pending in the Supreme Court.
What a shame!!! Shame on our law, our country, our world and most of all on US!!!
If we are not ready to protect our kids then who will protect them?
Aren’t we giving the predators, an easy path for pleasure?

Yes!!!!!
Play Marco-Polo with your kids and you will be surprised as to how much they trust every “Danger” warning of yours!!!! 
Kids are a gift,abuse is a curse.
Prevention is better than cure!!
Act before its too late!
Our little ones need us more than anyone!
Lets not cheat them!
God wont forgive, those who hurt his beautiful creations OR even those who let them get hurt.

Conclusion
She never wore her brand new jacket again, as it reminded her of the Dark Day
But she felt lucky that it was her only Dark Day.

19 comments:

  1. Exceptional content.... goose bumps bumped while reading your article..... Keep ur good work going....

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  2. YUP VERY TRUE ITS A GOOSE BUMPS MOMENT BUT V R LUCKY THAT V HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED IT. CANT FORGET THOSE WHO SUFFERED FOR SURE...
    THANKS I PUT ALL MY HEART AND WROTE IT
    THANKS FOR UR RESPONSE.
    U CAN EVEN READ MY PREVIOUS POSTS WHEN U ARE FREE.
    -RASHMI RAJ

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  3. Hey Rash..

    This is really amazing work.. and a eye opener for all the people out there to protect there little loved ones from evil's. i really appreciate your time and efforts to write something meaningfull with a message at the end alwayz..

    Ur Admirer :)

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    1. HEY RAJ
      thanks a lot for spending ur precious time reading my post.glad that u understood what i wanted to convey. i am happy u liked it. it feels even more nice when i get such a response, it makes me write even more. looks like u have read my other posts too, thank you for your support.
      Ur happy blogger:-)

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  4. It's such a sin to hurt kids..!! great work rash.. really good message .. continue ur good work..:)
    Gayathri

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    1. THANK YOU GAYATHRI
      yup its a sin and v should not be a part of it!!
      thanks for ur time:-) keep reading:-))))
      RASHMI RAJ

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  5. Hey:)

    *can't control my giggle* so i hope you understood who this is.

    I wanted to say that this post was amazing and as well as an eye opener for everyone.Three cheers for not hesitating on writing about this "topïc".

    Hoping for more brilliant and interesting post.

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    1. yup iguess i no who dis is... hope i am right!! thanks for ur comment, it makes me wanna write more
      keep reading and i ll keep blogging:-) and even i am giggling;-)
      RASHMI RAJ

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  6. good job with the example of child abuse, write about more of such issues existing in the society that are not addresses by our so called caretaker 'politicians'..

    Sanjeev

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    1. hey sanjeev
      thanks a lot for ur worthy comment. yes i will make sure i write more about such issues but if u want to read more of them u can just read my other blog and enjoy it:-))it is about our society!!
      http://rashmirajreality.blogspot.in/
      PS:happy reading

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  7. Hey Rash,
    I am so happy to c u bloggin... and wow wt a sensitive topic to deal wit "child Abuse". tis is one alarming issuse which each and everyone especailly the kids need to know. It is important 4 a child to know wt a gud touch is and wt a bad touch it... parents need to take tis issuse more seriously and not ignore it. i pitty the kids who r victims of thier own parents. Child abuse can actually ruin a chilsd life mentally and emotionally and tht kid might neva get out of the truma. i am really happy u delt wit the issue in a very suttle innocent way. i liked the way u have written a alarmin issue in a very swt way.... keep goin . lets hope tis blog brings awarness among ppl..... and lets hop ppl r more aware and senstitve to such issues..... let the child enjoy its chilhood and not b traumatised by such things......

    Luv u babes
    Sandhya

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    1. Hey Sandy
      I am so happy to see your comment, thanks for spending ur precious time on this post of mine, it is not only our responsibility to give birth to kids,send them to school,get them married,give shelter but even to protect them from the dirty world outside.lets not commit a crime of being blind to the outside world. our little ones need us!!
      they are innocent but the world around is not.
      lets not forget this.
      thanks for ur support.

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  8. hey rash :) :)
    u have done an exceptionally beautiful piece of writin...
    i wish these lines go beyond mere lines and ppl do understand and implement the meanin of the same. It is indeed very imp to make the newcomers aware abt the OTHER kind of ppl existin in this world. Hope this spreads across the world and brings in a change for a better survival.....
    keep writin such lovely pieces :)
    luv u lodz
    Pearlie :)

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    1. hey pearl!!!!
      thanks for those amazing words!! yes my intention was to convey the message in the most innocent way possible as it is read by all age groups and keep the language as simple as possible coz it is read by other countries too as per my view tracker. so i hope i ve conveyed the message clearly, but yes i will make sure i go im depth in future when i am in the right set of mind.
      and yes hope it reaches all those new parents and even those kids who need to survive in this world.
      yes!! fortunately my blog is reaching other countries too which makes me write more abt all issues.
      thanks for your precious time pearl:-))

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  9. and i love the title :)

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  10. and i love the title :)
    pearl

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    1. yes to be very honest i was confused abt what the title should be cos i wanted it to be a mystery and seem innocent so yup aneesha helped me wid it:-) thanks to her!! and i am so happy u loved the title!!

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    2. A vry gr8 work rashmi.. Heart touching Fact...
      Keep writing Blogs on such simlar issues...
      Good wrk... Keep writing... Al d best

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    3. hey thanks a lot vyshnavi!! thanks for reading my blog and i hope my messege has reached evryone!!
      thanks for your time.

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